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OP: CJWei
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11#
06/15/2016
Quote:顺沙Tony
所以上MIT的一定去当工程师，开了餐厅的就白上了或干脆不用上? 什么教育观念，糊涂到左边是有原因的 上MIT当然不是一定要当工程师，当工程师是failure，应该去当总统 |
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14#
06/15/2016
Quote:CJWei
当然沾边了，我在美国20几年，看到的不会少吧。逼着自己的孩子为了挤进藤校，不得不选个冷门专业，大二再转，搞的孩子困惑，无主。也有念不下来的，念下来出来找不到工作的，家长逼着考医，结果考试过不了，在家灰溜溜的，拒绝参加所有和华人有关的社交活动，家长觉得孩子是失败的 ... 何苦呢？ 是的，让孩子自由发展自己的才能和兴趣是很多华人父母最过不去的坎儿。结果忽略了孩子的情商和社交技能，结果孩子进入社会不能适应，这在美国并不少见。 |
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15#
06/15/2016
教会孩子如何将来自父母的gifed（基因与其它天赋）传化成自己的talent（才干），才是最根本的核心挑战。可惜华人很少有人真正理解了gifed，talent与Genius之间的关系。 |
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16#
06/15/2016
We no doubt has big influences left by our heritage. One is to get to top schools. I think more and more parents will realize that passion and love are drivers for kids success. Not getting to too school or getting to top firms. There are many ways to define life success. Having money or wealth or good job are only a few. The biggest success and luck is when one happens to find his passion that makes a good service to the society. |
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17#
06/15/2016
Quote:XuguangWu吴旭光
We no doubt has big influences left by our heritage. One is to get to top schools. I think more and more parents will realize that passion and love are drivers for kids success. Not getting to too school or getting to top firms. There are many ways to define life success. Having money or wealth or good job are only a few. The biggest success and luck is when one happens to find his passion that makes a good service to the society.
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18#
06/15/2016
Quote:卡捷琳娜
是的，让孩子自由发展自己的才能和兴趣是很多华人父母最过不去的坎儿。结果忽略了孩子的情商和社交技能，结果孩子进入社会不能适应，这在美国并不少见。 I believe it is getting better now. Independent thinking and be brace to choose own life course. Not necessarily to follow others step to get to top Ivy schools. |
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